Ask a Sexpert

Ask a Sexpert is designed to provide information about safe sex, HIV, sexually transmitted infections and other sexuality and sexual health issues. All questions are answered by a New Zealand AIDS Foundation staff member first, before other users can add their own response. Ask a Sexpert is not a substitute for advice from a health professional.

i'm 17 and have only had one person who can make me cum, it always took lots of effort thou and i don't know how to get a full blown orgasm as its always been from clit stimulation and not all that amazin. how do i get to the next level

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hi i have just lost mt viginty to my boy friend but when i did i didnt feel enything i still have the same fellings for him every time we do it its the same i dont love him eny moro or less do you know why ????????

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i am 14 and started mastrubation at age of 12 i mastrubate once or twice a day but nowadays when i mastrubate i am not getting the same plesure which i used to get at the age of 12

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How do you gave sex with a chick? What whole is best? Thanks.

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The Sexpert, 18 December 2009

Your female partner will guide you based on what feels mutually pleasurable.

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How many wholes does a vagina have? And what are the differences if so? Thanks

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The Sexpert, 18 December 2009

You can see for yourself here:

http://en.wikipedia.org.wiki/Vagina

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what can i do. im to embaressed to have sex because my penis is too curved

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The Sexpert, 18 December 2009

There are few penises that are completely straight, with curves seen in all directions. If the degree of the curve concerns you we suggest you consult a doctor or your local sexual health service.

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every time i have sex i dont feel anything is that a bad thing?

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The Sexpert, 18 December 2009

It’s not bad but clearly you’d like to know why. We suggest you consult your doctor or sexual health clinic - this is the sort of issue they deal with quite often and there’s no need to feel embarrassed.

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My boyfriend's penis is rather large, however every time we use condoms/lube, sex is quite painful and I often end up getting thrush. What are we doing wrong?

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The Sexpert, 18 December 2009

The bigger the penis the longer the foreplay required before penetration - and we mean 20 minutes or more. Your partner might also be thrusting too deeply and you’ll need to experiment with positions that feel comfortable. Pain shouldn’t be part of sex.

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Where's the Female Condom Videos at?

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The Sexpert, 2 November 2009

Good question - I don’t know where they are, but if they exist there wouldn’t be much too because almost all of it is inside the woman. I’m sure there are instructions on how to insert a female condom on the product’s website. A good place to start is here

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I Have A Very Tight Vagina . How Can I Loosen It ?

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The Sexpert, 2 November 2009

Lots of foreplay (20 minutes or more) and lots of lube.

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