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How did you lose your virginity?

Not going to that golf course again.

Post by Anonymous on 01 March 2010

It was nearly a month until my birthday, I was at a house party with a few friends. (and no I wasn’t drunk!) I got really bored of the party and decided to walk down to the Golf Course that was practically the back yard, so I was sitting there for about a half hour before i even noticed the guy sitting about 5 meters to my left, he scared the shit out of me until I realized it was the striker of my soccer team. He and I had been texting for months now, and occasionally sextexts when either of us got really horny.

Well we both had the same idea at the same time I guess, because he came over and had already stripped off his shirt and undone his jeans, and my shirt and skirt were off.
He was a terrible kisser for one, teeth clashing, ow.
I knew it wasn’t his first time, but as it was mine, i told him to be gentle, and he said that was fine. with no foreplay whatsoever, he pulled me on top of him, looking for me to be on top for my first time, i pulled away and said “Look no condom no sex, I’m not getting knocked up”, at the time i think I said this cause I was stalling trying to get wet, otherwise, hell it was going to hurt (well i thought it would). He put a condom on and then i suggested missionary cause it was my first and he sighed and rolled me over, then started screwing me. All I was thinking was, why and the hell is he getting all hot and sweaty, is it even in?!

Worst possible way to lose your virginity:
At a golf course with a guy who really doesn’t care.
(Thank God for that condom!)