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Ask a Sexpert is designed to provide information about safe sex, HIV, sexually transmitted infections and other sexuality and sexual health issues. All questions are answered by a New Zealand AIDS Foundation staff member first, before other users can add their own response. Ask a Sexpert is not a substitute for advice from a health professional.
Hi, I am having a problem during intercourse with my wife that I lose my erection while trying to wear condoms. I am 37 year old male.
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My partner of 3 years and I use condoms as our birth control, as I don't react well to the pill and have a genetic predisposition to blood-clots, which also prevents me from using IUDs. That being said, we have the issue of condoms coming loose during sex. If I'm on top, or he is on top, it's usually okay, but if we try any other positions, the condom nearly always comes off! Do you have any suggestions?
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what can i do. im to embaressed to have sex because my penis is too curved
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
There are few penises that are completely straight, with curves seen in all directions. If the degree of the curve concerns you we suggest you consult a doctor or your local sexual health service.
every time i have sex i dont feel anything is that a bad thing?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
It’s not bad but clearly you’d like to know why. We suggest you consult your doctor or sexual health clinic - this is the sort of issue they deal with quite often and there’s no need to feel embarrassed.
My boyfriend's penis is rather large, however every time we use condoms/lube, sex is quite painful and I often end up getting thrush. What are we doing wrong?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
The bigger the penis the longer the foreplay required before penetration - and we mean 20 minutes or more. Your partner might also be thrusting too deeply and you’ll need to experiment with positions that feel comfortable. Pain shouldn’t be part of sex.
Hi I have genital warts and am having trouble getting rid of them, they just seem to keep coming back after my partner and I have got rid of them. Any tips? (I have been perscribed aldara, if that helps you answer my question) Thanks
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
You’ll need to consult a doctor or local sexual health clinic.
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Im often turned on, the slightest thing can get me horny and in the mood. even just reading about it. why is this??
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
Unless it causes you undue anxiety, it’s completely normal to be easily aroused. Many people experience similar feelings.
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How safe is it to suck a penis? Thank you
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
It’s considered low risk for HIV given that you don’t have any significant broken skin in your mouth. Getting cum in your mouth increases the risk, but it’s still less risky than unprotected anal or vaginal sex.
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Where's the Female Condom Videos at?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
Good question - I don’t know where they are, but if they exist there wouldn’t be much too because almost all of it is inside the woman. I’m sure there are instructions on how to insert a female condom on the product’s website. A good place to start is here
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I love jerking my cock but when I cum it doesnt squirt out is this normal
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
Cum (semen) doesn’t always squirt out like a geyser as it does in some porn. Sometimes it just bubbles out or runs out and it’s completely normal. If it worries you consult your doctor or sexual health clinic.
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