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Ask a Sexpert
Ask a Sexpert is designed to provide information about safe sex, HIV, sexually transmitted infections and other sexuality and sexual health issues. All questions are answered by a New Zealand AIDS Foundation staff member first, before other users can add their own response. Ask a Sexpert is not a substitute for advice from a health professional.
how do i get flavourd condoms>??? and are they better than normal condoms>??? and whats the point in using lube>???
View responses (2)I am 17 an go to boarding school, an I think I am gay! I get erections in the p.e changing rooms watching other guys get changed. I masturbate in the hostel toilets when other guys are around. I always have a temptation to seach naked guys on the Internet also. At the pool I always get boners looking at other dudes. What should I do?
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
All the things you describe are completely normal for a young man and I’m certain there are many others experiencing similar feelings. If you begin to experiment make sure it feels right, don’t be pressured into something you’re not ready for and remember to use lube and condoms for anal sex.
It can really help to talk things through. Youthline () or OUTLine NZ () are both great for having a chat about your feelings in the safety that no one you know will find out - it really helps.
I Have A Very Tight Vagina . How Can I Loosen It ?
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
Lots of foreplay (20 minutes or more) and lots of lube.
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Hi, Why is there never any information about safe sex for lesbians? Are we a minority group or are gay men just more important?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
A women’s safe guide, “Keeping It Safe”, from Family Planning is available here.
Unless they have sex with men or inject drugs, lesbians are the lowest risk group for HIV transmission in the world.
how do they test 4 std's?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
With blood tests, urine tests and penile, anal and vaginal swabs - at your GP or local sexual health clinic.
I want sex but i dont wont it with my boy friend... Can you get any diseases if you get poked?
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
There needn’t be any rush to have sex and you can make it clear to your boyfriend that you’re not interested in having it with him. There certainly are diseases you can get which is why condoms are so important as protection against them.
does it feel good to have sex
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
It sure does - with a considerate and responsible partner and where the pleasure is mutual.
Is it okay if me and my brother have sex witrh our uncle if he has aids but we were protiction. Can we still catch anything?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
It’s likely that it’s illegal for your uncle to be having sex with either of you. However if you are consenting partners using condoms for anal or vaginal sex is essential.
Hi, I'm a virgin but my cum appears to have quite a yellowy tinge to it. Is this normal or is something wrong? Thanks.
View responses (2)The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
A yellowy tinge is not that unusual but it might be a good idea to consult a doctor or local sexual health service just to be sure it’s not related to anything else.
is it ok to cum blood?
View responses (1)The Sexpert, 18 December 2009
No it’s not OK and you should consult your doctor or local sexual health service.
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The Sexpert, 2 November 2009
Some chemists and sexy shops sell flavoured condoms. They are intended for oral sex and are not recommended for penetrative sex. The flavouring can cause stinging and irritation inside your partner. Lube is essential for anal and vaginal sex to minimise friction (which prfevents the condom from breaking) and comfort for both people.